The Real Cost of Retention vs. Acquisition
Member acquisition is expensive. Marketing campaigns, outreach events, and referral bonuses all add up. Research across industries consistently shows that it costs far more to gain a new customer than to keep an existing one. In clubs, this ratio is even higher because new members require onboarding, orientation, and time before they feel fully integrated.
Retention, on the other hand, is efficient. When members feel engaged, they are less likely to leave - and more likely to bring friends into the community. An engaged member isn't just a line item on a roster, but an advocate for the club.
Engagement as the Foundation of Loyalty
What keeps a member coming back year after year? It isn't just the facilities or the dining room.
It's the relationships and experiences that create emotional connection. ⫸ Participating in a tennis group creates bonds beyond the court.
⫸ Attending trivia night builds traditions members look forward to.
⫸ Volunteering for a community event instills pride in belonging.
When clubs consistently facilitate these experiences, members associate the club with connection, not just amenities. That emotional tie is what turns satisfaction into loyalty.
How Engagement Prevents Churn
Why do members leave? Often it's not because of cost or lack of services - it's because they don't feel a strong enough connection to stay. Engagement fills this gap:
⫸ Isolation – Members who don't know anyone are more likely to resign.
Engagement brings them into groups and activities where they form bonds.⫸ Routine fatigue – If the club feels repetitive, engagement creates fresh opportunities and new experiences.
⫸ Unheard voices – Feedback channels help members feel valued, showing that their opinions matter.
By proactively addressing these issues, clubs can reduce churn before it starts.
Feedback as a Retention Tool
Listening is engagement, too. Members who feel heard are less likely to leave. Regular
pulse feedback provides insight into trends and member sentiment. Acting on that feedback reinforces trust and commitment.
Building a Retention Playbook
Every club can benefit from a structured approach to engagement for retention:
⫸ Early Integration – Pair new members with mentors or invite them to group activities quickly.
⫸ Consistent Opportunities – Offer a variety of recurring activities - fitness classes, social events, card games, volunteering.
⫸ Recognition – Highlight engaged members, from committee volunteers to event participants.
⫸ Continuous Feedback – Use tools to gather and respond to member sentiment regularly.
⫸ Transparent Communication – Share improvements and decisions driven by member input.
Retention isn't an accident - it's the result of intentional engagement strategy.
The Engagement Flywheel
Retention and engagement feed each other. The more engaged members are, the longer they stay. The longer they stay, the more they contribute to culture, attracting others and reinforcing loyalty. This self-sustaining cycle is the
engagement flywheel.

Conclusion: Retention Through Connection
Clubs that prioritize engagement don't just keep members longer - they build communities that thrive. When members feel emotionally invested, they don't measure the club in terms of fees or amenities alone. They measure it in relationships, experiences, and memories.
Engagement is retention. And retention is the most cost-effective growth strategy a club can pursue.